Theory Thursday: When Feminism Curdles Your Love For a Book

Mar 29 2012       6 responses so far

Disclaimer: I’m giving myself a time and word limits for these posts (45 minutes, 1000 words), even though I know this could be way way longer.

The Sacrifice of Isaac, Caravaggio

As an undergraduate at Boston College, I discovered nineteenth century Danish philosopher Søren Kierkegaard, and promptly fell in love. Pretty much my entire life, I’ve had twin interests in fiction and philosophy, and with Kierkegaard, I found a philosopher who used fiction in fascinating ways. Two of Kierkegaard’s mentors were philosophers who wrote also fiction, so I guess he felt like he didn’t have to choose.

Kierkegaard deploys a number of rhetorical strategies, like using pseudonyms, parody, satire, and in general, trying to shake the reader out of her immersion in “the crowd”, that set of predictable stereotypical ideas inculcated in the emerging Danish middle class of the time. He’d release two contradictory works under different pseudonyms on the same day, break up the text by prefaces, forewords, strange pauses, postscripts, appendices. He’d use different pseudonyms in the same text, mark himself out as publisher of one text, editor of another, author of a third.  He’d write in a deliberately opaque way, using paradoxes to keep the reader from full immersion. The text forces the reader back on herself. She has to stay alert, take responsibility, choose, be herself with regard to the text.

One of the best examples of Kierkegaard’s method is in Fear and Trembling, where he, writing as Johannes de Silentio (John the Silent) ,  ponders the story of Abraham and Isaac from Genesis. Kierkegaard thinks it is an incredible story and that Abraham is a remarkable man (a “knight of faith”). But Christians hear about it in church and kind of nod their heads and think about what’s next (lunch at noon?). From Kierkegaard’s point of view, “No one, in truth, was great as was Abraham, and who can understand him?” So he re-tells the story in four different ways, demonstrating many fascinating things about the both philosophy and literature: the paradox of faith, the suspension of the ethical, the unavoidability of the absurd, the importance of narrative, the power of indirect communication, and on and on.

I’ve always loved Fear and Trembling, but when I started studying feminist theory, I saw the text in a very different way. None of the re-written versions is from Sarah’s point of view (not to mention Isaac’s), or even considers her.

Here’s how Sarah appears in Kierkegaar’s revised narratives:

1. “He departed from his tent, and Isaac with him; but Sarah looked out of the window after them until they were out of sight.”

2. “It was in the early morning. Abraham arose betimes and embraced Sarah, the bride of his old age. And Sarah kissed Isaac who had taken the shame from her—Isaac, her pride, her hope for all coming generations.”

3. “It was in the early morning. Abraham arose betimes he kissed Sarah, the young mother, and Sarah kissed Isaac, her joy, her delight for all times. And Abraham rode on his way, lost in thought—he was thinking of Hagar and her son whom he had driven out into the wilderness.”

4. “He bade farewell to Sarah … Then they returned home again, and Sarah hastened to meet them.”

Kierkegaard draws our attention to so many things, but there’s a lot of important stuff that gets overlooked if we stay within his own problematic. Specifically, where is Sarah in all this? What is the assumed role of the mother in contrast to that of the father? When they couldn’t conceive, why was it Sarah who became the “laughingstock to all the people?” Why is it so much greater to sacrifice a child rather than protect him? Why didn’t Abraham sacrifice himself? What social norms themselves influence Kierkegaard’s notion of the knight of faith?

Kierkegaard says that Abraham suspended the ethical, in order to live the paradox of faith. When I was younger, I thrilled to the idea that there was a realm beyond social norms, beyond reason, a radically subjective place from which we can take ultimate responsibility for our decisions, a existential kind of heroism that I could — like Kierkegaard himself– admire but not emulate.

After getting a little older, reading feminist theory, and, not unimportantly, becoming a mother myself, I could never go back to my college -age awe. In the provocative title of this post I say feminism “curdled” Fear and Trembling, but I don’t really believe that’s true. I’ve lost something, yes, but I think I’ve gained a more critical, and more substantial perspective, one that will hopefully continue to become more subtle and complex, as long as I stay open to new interpretations (not easy), every time I read.

ps. For a more sustained feminist reflection, have a look at this very nice lecture by Carol Delaney, Associate Professor of Cultural and Social Anthropology, Stanford University.

 

Review: The Wedding Party, by Elisabeth Rose

Mar 28 2012       7 responses so far

The Wedding Party (Avalon, 2011) is a sweet, enjoyable contemporary romance. Here’s the blurb:

Phoebe Curtis is thrilled when asked to marry friends Lindy and Alex in her seaside hometown of Narooma. Lindy has arranged a pre-wedding holiday week, Phoebe included, as a reunion for Alex and his two Best Men. Phoebe loves weddings and hopes for her own happily ever after.

Brady Winters reluctantly leaves his luxury charter yacht company in the Mediterranean for a flying trip to Australia to be Best Man. A week is all he can spare and, as a confirmed and cynical bachelor, spending time with an overexcited group of women preparing for a wedding is the last thing he wants.

But as Lindy’s meticulous plans go awry, Phoebe’s sense of duty almost halts the wedding, and a dental crisis forces Brady to stay on long enough for him to discover a wedding of his own might not be too bad after all. But will Phoebe have him?

As most readers of this blog know, I cannot resist a hero with a dental crisis. What could it be? Extruded tooth during a werewolf transformation gone awry? Filling lost in the midst of an underwater search for the missing loot? Tooth knocked out during a fight over the heroine’s honor? Alas, it was nothing so exciting, but it did serve its purpose: the tooth problem keeps itinerant seaman Brady in tiny Narooma for a couple of weeks after his mate’s wedding, lodging with lovely dental assistant Phoebe just long enough to fall in love.

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Theory Thursday: Autonomy and Agency

Mar 22 2012       10 responses so far

Today in feminist philosophy we’re reading Marilyn Friedman’s essay, Autonomy, Social Disruption, and Women. I thought I’d say something about autonomy.

A generic definition of autonomy starts with the etymological root: auto = self, nomos = governed. The opposite of autonomy would be heteronomy, being “other-ruled.” Someone who was brainwashed, as in the movie The Manchurian Candidate, would be a classic example in the philosophical literature of a non-autonomous person.

To most philosophers, especially those who situate themselves in the liberal tradition, broadly defined, autonomy seems like a good thing, both for what it is (intrinsically), and what it can do (instrumentally). An autonomous person’s choices are really hers in a personally (and often morally and politically) significant way.

 

A very common philosophical account (elements of which span philosophy from the ancient Greeks through the present day) says that to be autonomous, a person has to be independent, even isolated, rational, and a rule breaker.  Some feminists have criticized “autonomy” for being too closely associated with masculine traits (literary characters like Roark from The Fountainhead, or film characters like Mel Gibson’s character in Road Warrior would be paradigm examples of the autonomous man). Friedman says feminists, and indeed all human persons, need autonomy to fight oppression and because it represents full human development, a fully human life.

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Is the BEA Bloggers Con Dead on Arrival (Updated)?

Mar 21 2012       23 responses so far

The Book Blogger Convention was founded in 2010 by Trish Collins of Hey Lady! Watcha Readin’? and Michelle Franz of Galleysmith. The Book Blogger Con was an event run by bloggers, for bloggers for two years prior to being purchased by Reed Exhibitions, operators of Book Expo America and other trade shows. The first BBC had 200 attendees, and grew to 340 the next year.

I was looking forward to attending BBC, but was a bit puzzled when the purchase by Reed was announced in January with no details. There were lots of congratulations, but I was really surprised nobody asked what it meant for the event. This post and the comments at Collins’ blog are representative:

We are confident in the direction that Reed will take the Book Blogger Convention, and we feel they will be able to do things with it that we were unable to do, either because we didn’t have the resources or we didn’t have the time.

For many of us, registration was complicated and nightmarish, necessitating a February post dedicated to explaining how to do it (which was so unclear that a fellow BEA employee had to further clarify in a long comment). After registering, I was immediately spammed on a near daily basis with invitations to a webinar on, of all things, Google+. Author Jennifer Weiner was announced as the keynote speaker, a choice that raised eyebrows for a range of reasons.

Edited to add: And Weiner has weighed in, introducing her own point of view, and the possibility of an anti-BEA plot from the Friday Reads/Book Riot folks (who, it seems are taking the leads in organizing the un con):

 

There was a blogger focus group that … wasn’t very focused on bloggers, according to one participant:

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Review: No Cheating, No Dying, by Elizabeth Weil

Mar 20 2012       3 responses so far

I’m not sure why this new memoir caught my eye. Wait, yes I am. Three marriages in our social circle have experienced divorce and/or separation in the last year or so. It’s made me think a lot about marriage. Elizabeth Weil has written for Vogue, Real Simple, and Outside, is a co author of a couple of nonfiction (bathroom genre?) books on parenting and love. She’s also a contributing writer for the New York Times Magazine. In 2009, she published Married (Happily) With Issues, which gives a good sense of what the book is about.

Weil says that one day she suddenly wondered why she and her husband (also a writer) work hard at their jobs, parenting, and hobbies, but not their marriage:

Why weren’t we caring more for our marriage, making it as strong as it could be? Dan is really the very best thing that’s happened in my life. He squints like Clint Eastwood. He calls me “darling.” He’d cook me three meals a day if I let him (which I don’t; again, the question of independence). He’s a great conversationalist and he makes me feel like one of the more interesting people on earth. So why were we bumbling? Why weren’t we being more deliberate? I’ve never been one to leave well enough alone, nor have I ever believed that marriage is binary — that one moment you’re single and the next you’re not, some alchemy happening at the altar. I’ve always believed that you get married, truly married, slowly, over time, through all the dental plaque you inadvertently flick into each other’s faces; through all the sunsets you watch on remote Baja beaches after you’ve locked your keys in your rental car, again; through all the near-hypothermic panic attacks because you decided it would be a good idea to swim together from Alcatraz to San Francisco; through all the frozen pig skulls your spouse power saws in half (in order to make pork stock); through all the pain, tears, and absurdity; through small and large moments you never expected to happen and certainly didn’t plan to endure.

I never bought the idea that the marriage project occurred to Weil prior to and independently of the writing possibilities it presented. But she seemed genuinely engaged in the various therapies and marriage classes they experienced during the year of marriage improvement, and I enjoyed No Cheating, No Dying anyway.

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The Inevitable This ‘n That Post

Mar 19 2012       23 responses so far

I haven’t blogged in a while… about ten days actually. I find it so difficult to write my way out of a hiatus, so I decided to just start typing and hit publish. I apologize in advance.

This wasn’t a planned hiatus. I just got busy. I also have this thing — totally arbitrary, I realize –  where if I am not in the mood to blog, I tell myself, “Wait until the daily visitors gets below X, then write a post.” The problem is that the Fifty Shades of Grey posts have generated a reliably steady stream of visitors, such that I haven’t felt like I needed to blog to prevent this site from vanishing off the face of the earth. Of course, those visitors are evenly divided between (a) journalists looking for information, (b) husbands trying to figure out what their wives are reading, and (c) curious onlookers — none likely candidates for regular readers.

Add that to all the folks looking for Hunger Games posts, since the movie is out this week, and if I stuck to my informal rule of only blogging when the numbers get below a certain point, I might never need to blog again, not a happy result (for me). I plan to see the film as soon as I can and blog about it. I’m super excited, and so are the kids. I think it looks good.

I was asked by a number of journalists to comment on 50 Shades. I declined each time. I’m not an expert on the James trilogy (I only read book one, and not very carefully at that) and I certainly don’t want to start giving sound bites on why women are reading it. Afterwards, I read all the published/broadcast news pieces, and felt glad I stayed out of it. So many of them were fluff pieces along the lines of “mommy porn.” This is yet another case where the bloggers are doing a much better job than mainstream media on book coverage.

That said, I’m still not feeling the ethical arguments gelling in a way that is satisfying to me personally. No, I’m not planning on writing a post, but I’m reading what others have to say with interest and I’m hopeful since the question keeps getting asked. Fandoms are so complex and unique. I’m planning my annual visit to Disney World and spending some time in the Disney parks fandom. It just reminds me how quirky and byzantine the rules are. Like, if you even ask certain questions, forget it. There is no forgiveness for people who want to get their 11 year old into the parks on a child ticket, or want to bring their refillable mug from a prior trip, or attempt to pool hop from resort to resort. Those are cardinal sins! But… if you need to be a bit aggressive in saving your place (and a place for your 12 family members) for the Nighttime Electrical Parade at Magic Kingdom, well, naturally! Or utilize certain loopholes in the Fastpass system … ok, then! Then again, you’ll get dissenters in each case.

I’ve read a few books I both enjoyed and found very interesting, such as No Cheating, No Dying by Elizabeth Weil, and The Housekeeper and the Professor by Yoko Ogawa. I hope to review them when my reviewing mojo returns. Unfortunately, I haven’t been able to get excited about romance recently.

I am also reading Good in Bed by Jennifer Weiner. She is giving the keynote at the BEA Book Blogger conference in June, and I figured I should know something about her work. The heroine, who has the totally distracting name of “Canny” (nickname for Candace), is heavy and it is on her mind all the time. I waffle between thinking this is a good but difficult-to-read portrayal of this character, and thinking it would be nice if there were more diversity in the portrayal of heavy heroines, with at least some of them happy with their size.

As for BEA Blogger Con, there is an agenda up but no names attached to the program.

I had this idea that I would try to do short post every Thursday, introducing a concept very briefly. I would call it Theory Thursday. It would be a lot of feminist theory, since that’s what I’m teaching, but maybe some ethical theory too. I’ll try it this week and see if anybody seems to like it. It would help me prep for Thursday’s class. This week we are reading a great essay called “Forgetting Yourself” by Anita L. Allen, someone I admire a lot. You may be groaning right now. All I can promise is these posts will be short.

My dogs, serving as blog filler. Sorry guys.

Things are busy but good at work. I had a very nice annual review last week at the hospital. Here is something odd: every year, when it comes time for this review, I half expect to get fired. It would not surprise me at all to hear, “We’re so sorry. But you suck. Good bye.”

At the university, classes are good, and the committee on revitalizing the women’s studies program (our major and grad concentration got suspended last year) is turning out to be more fun than it has any right to be.

We’ve been enjoying unseasonably warm weather here in central Maine recently. Everyone is smiling. I went for a jog tonight with my younger son on his scooter alongside. Good times. When I bracket fears about global warming, I think it’s great, too.

The kids are a continuing delight, in the odd moments when they are not driving me crazy. I ordered Max off the Xbox earlier, and he replied, “You don’t understand. You only had rocks and string to play with when you were a kid.” Very funny. They are both saying “suckah” constantly. I’ll ask David where his brother is, and he’ll say “suckah’s upstairs.” Or he’ll come in after school and say “what’s for snack, suckah?” I ask myself, on a daily basis, where did I go wrong? Please, don’t answer that.

A nurse sent me an email today and signed it, “Make it a great day!”

I’m trying. :)

Review: Lily, by Patricia Gaffney

Mar 09 2012       8 responses so far

Lily is a historical romance originally published in 1996 1991. Open Road Media, which specializes in backlists, has re-released it as an ebook. I received my copy from the publisher via Net Galley way back in December. There are two reasons it took me forever to finish it: (1) the review copy was not well formatted and contained many errors, and (2) I couldn’t get into it. Hopefully the first issue has been fixed for paying readers.

Twenty year old Lily Trahearne is a gently bred young woman under the guardianship of her uncle, Reverend Roger Soames, a fanatical minster who hopes to marry Lily to his own son, for reasons that seem less than pious. Lily, who misses her inventor father, prone to drink though he was, is just marking time until she comes into her small inheritance in one year’s time, preferring a life of “impoverished independence” to one with her weirdo cousin. Lily’s repeated refusals lead to an argument in the sitting room that reveals the Reverend’s penchant for blackmailing and violence side (he frames her for stealing) yet ends with him apparently dead from Lily’s attempts at self-defense. Realizing how it looks, Lily flees Lyme Regis and ends up in Cornwall, working as a maid at Darkstone Manor, ancestral home of Devon Darkwell, Viscount Sandown. Much of the subsequent action plays out against stormy gray seas, ragged cliffs, and misty moors.

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What I’m Up To, Politics Fatigue, and Links

Mar 07 2012       15 responses so far

This is week two of my two week uni spring break. I’ve been working pretty hard and not breaking at all, but it’s nice to do so without teaching at the same time. The only day I’ve taken completely off was yesterday, when I dragged an arm chair in front of the wood stove and sat with a cup of tea, my pets, and my kindle all day. It was so nice.

I got a call from the hospital yesterday (where I work as an ethicist, and am always, more or less, on call). The doctor asked, “Are you here right now?” in a tone I know well,  and I knew I could either say, “No, I’m not” in my apologetic voice, or “No, but I can be there in ten.” I went with option A, and am still feeling a little guilty about it today. But I know there are others who are well-equipped to help him with his issue, and I wasn’t reneging on my “day off” promise to myself.

It’s that time of year in Maine when you’re really ready for spring, but it’s a good month away. It’s sort of gray, the snow is still in dirty piles everywhere, but receding enough so that you can see that you really ought to have protected your dangling and wilted shrubbery a bit better. It’s not quite freezing yet not exactly warm, but you’re so sick of your overcoat that you’d rather freeze without it.  It snows an inch or two every few days just as a reminder that one more big storm may yet happen.  The family’s winter gear is covered in mud and needs a good washing, but you feel winter is almost over, so it can wait.

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There’s a lot going on online. Responding to the latest data on gender bias in books journalism,  Jennifer Weiner wrote about the need for an all girls book network at The Guardian. Then she did some “rom fail” style tweeting E. L. James’s Fifty Shades of Grey, and some tweeps who liked that book responded negatively to her. So Weiner tweeted that she just wasn’t going to say anything negative about other women’s books, which I thought had to be a joke, until I read her blog post, that confirmed it. This is all happening at the same time the romance Fever by Joan Swan is getting a lot of criticism for featuring a racist character who uses racist language in an objectionable way. See the review that started the discussion, Mandi’s at Good Reads (which the author gave her some grief over), and then see Jane’s review at Dear Author.  Over at Something More, Liz has some thoughts on How Mean is Too Mean When We Talk About Books?

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If you are interested in pursuing the fan fic question around Fifty Shades of Grey further, here is a good post and thread by PNR author Jami Gold.

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