Archive for the 'Navel gazing' category

Randomness: the week that’s over, links, blerghhhhhh

Jan 20 2012 Published by under Friday Five, Links, Navel gazing

It’s Friday night. I’m enjoying a rum and Pepsi Joy.  We’ve ingested our homemade pizza, a tradition in our house* (*for the past three weeks).  Rather than focusing on my horrible taste in drinks, let’s move on to the week (or weeks) that was (or were…freshness not being my strong suit on the linkage):

Hypocrites of the week:

1. PIPA co-sponsor Senator Roy Blunt, using a copyrighted image without permission for his Twitter background (via a PHI 230 Ethics student)

2. Newt Gingrich, with the NY Daily News providing humorous commentary:

Gingrich treats Romney like some kind of felon, but nobody is supposed to care that while he originally led the charge against Bill Clinton on Monica Lewinsky he was conducting his own affair with a congressional aide, now Callista Gingrich.

Coward of the week:

Captain Schettino (via Gawker)

We happened to be doing Aristotle this week in ethics class, and what a great way to illustrate his concept of cowardice!

Literary Links:

***

Morality in Fantasy: 2012 Edition by Cora Buhlert (via @victoriajanssen)

***

Via The Advocate, the best new erotica and romance for lesbian, gay, bi, and trans audiences.

***

Wickedly Funny: the Humor of Anne Stuart’s Heroes, by Victoria Janssen at Heroes and Heartbreakers.

***

The Trouble With Productivity, from the TLSBlog.

Can you be productive by not being productive? Are there artistic possibilities in exhaustion, failure and laziness?

Do I need to explain the appeal of this article?

***

How To Read more: A Lover’s Guide (via @sallyheroes ) I really need to take some of this advice more to heart, especially:

8. Give up on a book if it’s boring. Reading isn’t something you do because it’s good for you — it’s not like taking your vitamins. You’re reading because it’s fun. So if a book isn’t fun, dump it. Give it a try for at least a chapter, but if you still don’t love it, move on.

***

A remembrance of the late Penny Jordan, by Jay Dixon at Teach Me Tonight:

She wrote well in many genres, yet remained unassuming, diffident about her own talent, but always keen to help new writers.

***

More authors talking about bad reviews:

Harlequin M&B author Wendy S. Marcus on Reader Reviews and What Not To Do. Loads of wrongness in the 71 comments, but the post author concludes with:

The most important lesson of bad reviews: Do not engage the reviewer. (At least I remembered that!!!)

Everyone is entitled to their opinion.

***

And YA Author Maggie Stiefvater, in a post about negative reviews that does what I hate more than anything else on the inerwebs, pretending to be the cool, educated, rational one, when everything about the post screams I’m hot, bothered, ignorant, and irrational!!!! Also commits my second most hated internet error, backpeddling in the comments section, while claiming that the readers just didn’t “get” your point. Oh, and my third: referring to oneself as an “academic” when one has a bachelor’s degree. Ms. Stiefvater, I will never, ever read one of your books.

***

Good responses from Jane at Dear Author and Azteclady at Karen Knows Best.

***
In case you missed it, the comment thread of this Strange Horizons review of Theft of Swords by Michael J. Sullivan is worth a look, on the question of “review” versus “something authors don’t much like” (via @booksmugglers).

Liz, do everyone a favour and head down to Temple Bar, have a pint and seriously consider what it is you feel like putting out there for all to see. Because THIS is NOT a review. This is the ranting blog post of a post-pubescent bully without the forethought or the tact to do a PROPER review. Trinity College could do without folk like you on their student roll sheet. I’m not joking, I hope one of your professors reads this.

***

Via @meredithduran, How to become a romance novelist, an old (1996) article in the Boston Phoenix. Interesting reading. Sample:

You revile it. The bosomy “clinch” cover is the bête noir of choice for successful romance writers. The heroine’s cleavage suggests lactation; the hero clutches her from an angle that could bring little pleasure to either party; they are coupling frantically on a bed of rhododendrons. When you get together with other successful romance writers, your complaints about the clinch mount into a communal frenzy. You suspect conspiracy.

“In my darker moments, I regard them as a form of sexual harassment,” Chekani says. “It’s the distributors who want the sexy covers on the books. These are guys. And these are the people who put the books on the shelves.”

***

I love these T-shirts: philosophers, literary luminaries, film directors, astronauts, and others, from Caitlin Hinshelwood. My fave:

Borges by Caitlin Hinshelwood

 

***
The cure for thinking is work, at Prof Hacker:

 

thinking is the hobgoblin of big minds. Thinking, according to Stallybrass, is:

Hard,  painful
Boring, repetitious
Indolent (1583)

On the other hand, working is:

Easy
Exciting, a process of discovery
Challenging (1583)

***

Is this gossip, news, or am I in the midst of some terrible Pepsi Joy/Rum nightmare? Paul Rudd is set to play Wesley in the Princess Bride remake. (via @Milerama)

 

***

My week in ethics:

The bad:

1. Not knowing, for a minute, what to say to a student who claimed that it’s a moral duty for a US military to execute a child of a suspected Taliban member, in order to prevent him from growing up to become a terrorist.

2. Waiting, and waiting for my students in feminist philosophy to figure out what is wrong with Kate Millett’s formulation, “blacks and women” in Sexual Politics.

3. Driving through a snowstorm to get to my 9:00 am contemporary moral problems class this morning after a 7:30 am hospital meeting, only to find that someone has written on the board, “PHI is cancelled today” and most of the students have left.

The educational:

1. Getting annoyed at an email from an administrative assistant saying that some unnamed doctor has asked me to come to their hospital — 2.5 hours from my home –  to give a CME talk in bioethics at 8:00am, unpaid.

2. Talking to a surgeon this morning who will miss next week’s meeting because he is driving 2.5 hours to give a volunteer CME talk on breast cancer at a rural hospital 2.5 hours away. *gulp*

The good:

1. Meeting a new Hospice “friend” today, a WWII veteran, marveling again that someone has allowed me into their home, wondering how on earth I could help these amazing people.

2. Falling into inexcusable and immature paroxysms of laughter when the NP asks my boys whether they have experienced “constipation or diarrhea” at their well-child check-ups today. Nobody makes me laugh like those two:

***

Hope your weekend is groovy. See you tomorrow, I hope, with another review.

12 responses so far

What I’m up to this semester: teaching, speaking, blogging, etc.

Jan 07 2012 Published by under Academia, Blogs and blogging, Navel gazing

I don’t make New Year’s Resolutions, but I live on the semester system, so I tend to think in 14 week blocks. In the interest of writing an easy blog post this morning, I thought I’d share some of my plans.

1. Teaching: I’m teaching a feminist philosophy course, so expect a number of related posts. This semester, I added some articles on the transgender experience, and on the Third Wave (over the years, I have tried using some of the popular third wave anthologies, like Third Wave Agenda, and Colonize This!, but, while they may work well for an interdisciplinary WST course, I found them lacking for a philosophy course. Unfortunately, because students love them.). I’m also teaching Ethics, which is not an applied course but a theory course, rooted in the history of philosophy. In a nod to my own personal history, I added Kierkegaard’s Fear and Trembling, something that made a huge impression on me as an undergraduate, but which I’ve never taught, and a section on twentieth century Anglo-analytic ethical theory (Moore, Pritchard, Ross, Ayer), a nod to my graduate training.  I predict great love for the former and great hate for the latter. We’ll see.

2. Speaking: I decided not to go to any out of state conferences this semester. I have a bad habit of preparing papers for conferences and then not turning them into journal articles. I am not allowing myself to go to another conference until I write up and submit at least two papers from conferences I’ve attended in the past two years. Of course, I’m committed to a number of talks in Maine, including for our state’s Breastfeeding Coalition annual meeting, our state’s Family Physicians annual meeting, regular talks for the hospital (I have one on a tough Jehovah’s Witness case next week), and, in a new endeavor, a talk on blogging for our local library, with Kristen of Fantasy Cafe. On campus, there’s a new humanities initiative, and my colleague Kirsten and I are doing a seminar on end of life. Her perspective is phenomenology, especially Merleau-Ponty, and mine tends to be very clinically based Anglo-Amercian ethics. Faculty are supposed to sign up, and we have a day of talking and sharing. There is more I could say about the humanities initiative on our campus, but this is one of those times I’d better keep my own counsel.

3. Ethics consulting: Our formal consult service has been up and running for about five years now (although informally, it is older than that). We’ve decided to set up a database on our hospital’s intranet with “scrubbed” cases, organized by keywords, which staff can search. I’m shaking a little just typing that, because I know how much work it is going to be, but I’m very excited that the IT Gods are giving us server space, and that staff are actually asking for this, which suggests that some people think we are doing something right. I’m still not going to blog about ethics consulting, for obvious reasons.

4. Blogging: I’m not doing any challenges and I don’t set reading goals. I’m not sure why, because I like to have, for example, fitness goals, but reading challenges, like book clubs, take the fun out of reading for me. Last semester, I found that making the blog work to meet my non-blog goals was very good for me and the blog. So, for example, to prepare for class, I would write a blog post. Or I’d write about what I was reading, even if it wasn’t something I felt people would be interested in. It’s a little scary not having a “niche” in the blogging world, but I’m fine with it, and certainly not the only person who blogs this way. I found that staying away from kerfuffles was, on balance, the right choice last semester, so I plan to keep mostly away from drama, although many of them are irresistibly fascinating and also pretty important.

5. Readers’ conferences: I’ve had a hard time deciding whether and which readers’ conference to attend this year. I signed up for a small readers retreat in Manchester, Vermont in April. But for big conferences, it’s looking like Book Blogger Con/BEA in New York is my choice this year. I would love to attend Romantic Times, before all the OTT stuff that once made it the stuff of romance fandom legend is gone, but the timing is (nearly) impossible. We’ll see.

6. Parenting: After 12 years of practice, I continue to be a devious, unsympathetic and reluctant parent. Just kidding. Sort of. I made my sons, ages 10 and 12, sign up for ski lessons. Kids are grouped by ability, not age. They had loads of same age friends in the lodge, but when everybody skied out to meet their groups, my sons went one way, and their peers went another. They ended up in a group composed almost entirely of five year old girls. I have been giggling over it ever since. Here’s a pic (my boys in the foreground, instructors on the right):

 

 

This is the last weekend of winter break. We plan to spend it in our usual relaxed, not to say indolent, manner, with friends for dinner, warm fires, lots of reading, and a couple of walks in the woods with our dogs. Whatever you are up to this weekend, I hope you enjoy it.

 

 

5 responses so far

Books purchased and read, bookstores visited on my holiday vacation

Jan 02 2012 Published by under Navel gazing

Greetings and Happy New Year! As I type this, my spouse and I are en route back to Maine from a child free trip to San Francisco to see friends. We ate great food, saw great music, did a ton of walking, and, best of all, got to spend time with dear friends. To ease back into blogging for 2012, and to kill time during a four hour layover in Detroit (don’t pity me. I’m hanging out in the Delta Sky Lounge within slurping distance of both an espresso machine and an open bar) here’s a list of paper books purchased, e books read, and book stores visited, while I was away:

My first bit of travel was actually to the sun and sand with my mom and the kids. During that portion of the trip, I read, or in one case, tried to read, some m/m romance, including Carol of the Bellskis by Astrid Amara, and Love Ahead, by Abigail Roux and Madeleine Urban. I also finished Juliet, Naked by Nick Hornby, and The Sense of an Ending by Julian Barnes. I also read one non fiction title, Fall in Love Like A Romance Novelist, edited by Amelia Grey. For het romance, I read Miranda Neville’s The Wild Marquis, and, for the second time, started Nora Roberts’ Sea Swept, and for the second time, put it down.

Needing a paper book for the takeoffs and landings, My mom and I both picked up a 2009 memoir about a woman whose husband drops dead at forty seven, after which she discovers his many adulterous affairs, called Perfection, by Julie Metz. We agreed that this book was both terrible and hard to put down. Also in paper was book two of Jordan Castillo Price’s Psycop series.

For the San Fran flights, my paper book was year end issues of various magazines, and The Virgin Suicides, Jeffrey Eugenides first novel from back in 1993. I bought that one at City Lights, the famous San Francisco book store, THE Beat bookstore, the first exclusively paperback book store as well. Other books purchased at City Lights include: The Sacred Book of the Werewolf, by Victor Pevelin, which was a staff pick. Also Jar City by Arnaldur Indridason, a recommendation from Keishon of Avid Mystery Reader.

The next day I got to meet up with @JanetNorCal, and she took me to the fantastic Book Passage in Corte Madera, which specializes in YA and mystery. There, I picked up Warm Bodies by Isaac Merton, a recommendation from The Book Smugglers, and Sun Storm, by Asa Larsson, another mystery rec from Keishon.

On the flight from San Fran to Detroit, I read Falling Off the Face of the Earth, another m/m romance, by JF Smith, and some more of the Eugenides.

The one that got away was The Solitude of Prime Numbers, by Paolo Giordano, which my friend bought, and is loving. I will need to get that one some day soon.

I had hoped for the usual things, like hyperlinks and photos, hell, even italics, in this post, but as I tried to write it using only my iPad, I discovered what a pain it is to try to post from something other than a computer. I downloaded a free Word Press app, became frustrated with it in about a minute, then bought a very highly rated one called Blogsy, which I noodled around with and which does seem much more promising, especially when it comes to getting images in to the post.

So, sorry for the stripped down nature of the post. I hope to write a proper one tomorrow, a review of one of the books I’ve read over the break. Thanks to everyone for their top ten lists. As you can see, I’ve made three purchases from them just this past weekend.

Cheers!

7 responses so far

On Vacation

Dec 18 2011 Published by under Navel gazing

 

I had great plans to pre-write and schedule all of my m/m reviews before heading out today on vacation, but it was not to be. I’m going to be traveling for the next two weeks, all of it for fun, from Florida to the Caribbean to San Francisco. Expect little posting, with the exception of my Book Smugglers  guest post on Tuesday Dec. 20, on Memorable Violence in this Year’s Reading. Since I won’t be around on the 20th, let me take this opportunity to thank Ana and Thea for inviting me once again to be part of the wonderful celebration of books that is Smugglivus.

I’ll be back in early January with a slew of m/m romance reviews, as well as reviews of Nick Hornby’s Juliet, Naked, Ilana Gershon’s The Breakup 2.0: Disconnecting over new media, Patricia Gaffney’s Lily, and maybe Patrick Rothfuss’s The Name of the Wind.

I hope you have a wonderful Christmas and/or Hanukkah and a Happy New Year!

 

7 responses so far

The Agony of Defeat

Nov 05 2011 Published by under Navel gazing

Coach and son

After terrific semi-final win this morning, we lost the final of the state cup to a terrific southern Maine team this afternoon.

This absolutely sucks, but we went 19-1 for the season. And that’s pretty darn good.

To console ourselves on the ride home, we all listened to Flight of the Conchords songs. Who can stop laughing when they hear Business Time?


Then we’re in the bathroom
Brushing our teeth
That’s all part of the foreplay
I love foreplay
A-sshga-sshga, a-sshga-sshga, a-shhga-sshgaow!
Then you sort out the recycling
That isn’t part of the foreplay process but it’s still very important

YouTube Preview Image

Happy Saturday!

7 responses so far

The November Blogging Plan

It’s been a busy week or so, as the lack of posts will attest. I’ve got three presentations next week, one at Hospice on ethics in hospice volunteering, one at the hospital on ethical issues in caring for the obese patient, and the big one, my presentation with a fellow professor at the Popular Romance in the New Millennium conference (that one’s in Maryland).  I’ve been trying to get going on those talks, but keep getting sidetracked by consult calls, my son’s soccer team’s inability to lose (and thus continued participation in the state soccer cup tournament), and, truth be told, Twitter.

Nonetheless, I’d like to try to blog *something* so I thought I would try to do some bullets every day, talking about what I’ve been up to in the classroom, reading, writing etc. Nothing too onerous, for me or for you. I am definitely hoping to blog some of the McDaniel conference.

Here goes:

1. My Ethics and Fiction class continues to be outstanding. We had a wonderful discussion of the ethics of teaching Huckleberry Finn, which I hope to blog about at some length, and I assigned a short story by William Henry Lewis, “I Got Somebody in Staunton” for the next class period (here’s a link to the NYT review of the collection). Although there is no replicating the richness of a racially diverse group, I was astounded at how strongly my all-white class responded to the Staunton piece. It’s the story of a black professor who is driving to visit his ailing uncle and decides to give a lift to a white girl he meets in a bar. If I list out the action elements, nothing much happens. But the protagonist’s racial consciousness, shaped by his uncle, makes every new paragraph feel like a hate crime waiting to happen. It made a huge (positive) impression on my students, and gave us a way to bring some of the racial issues from Twain forward. I’m a little dejected about my 100, so this is a nice balance.

2. I’ve been reading romance novels in which the heroine is an author, often a romance novelist, for my project on authorship. One of those was Julie Leto’s Brazen and Burning, a 2003 Harlequin Temptation. In this one, Sydney is a romance writer who has made it to the top of her field. She’s all about casual sex, and has left behind a string of broken hearts. She decides (for no reason, really, which is one issue I had with the book) it is time to pursue the one man who might have been worth a real commitment. Alas, she learns that he has been hit by a car and has amnesia! He finds her attractive, but cannot recall their relationship. Isn’t that a great plot? This is a good one for my project, because Sydney uses her romance writer smarts to cope with obstacles in her relationship with Adam. She’s completely confident in every way and I enjoyed the heck out of this little book.

3. Okay, you have heard about NaNoWriMo (National Novel Writing Month), and maybe even NaBloPoMo (National Blog Posting Month). But a new one on me is AcBoWriMo. Think you can write an academic book in a month? Actually, you can set your own goals. What is it about November that we are supposed to be so productive this month? Anyway, I think I am going to try the daily blogging thing. Anyone care to join me?

4. My friend took me shopping last weekend. Occasionally, my friends take pity on me and do this sort of thing. I discovered Chico’s Travelers clothing. Oh my god! So flowy and comfortable and I can eat all the Halloween candy I want and still wear it. Hell, I could be 8 months pregnant and still wear this stuff. I bought this stuff, so if you see someone with crazy eyes and a red and black outfit next week, it’s me. However, my fashion forward friend couldn’t get me to replace my ancient Danskos… that I got as hand me downs … in 2005 … from my 75 year old mom … that I fell asleep in front of the wood stove wearing … and melted the tops off of … yet still wear.

5. I joined Pinterest. I have no idea why and doubt it will take (i.e. it will go the way of Facebook, Librarything, Goodreads, Tumblr, and Goggle+ in the pantheon of my failed digital experiments). I know this is not exactly an enticing intro to my pins (pin board?s), but if you are on it, feel free to friend me. Or pin me. Or whatever.

More tomorrow!

7 responses so far

Three years of blogging: reflections, stats, and changes ahead

Aug 25 2011 Published by under Blogs and blogging, Navel gazing

Changing directions (Ireland 2011)

 

It’s time for my annual anniversary post. The big change this year was my new blog layout, introduced in September 2010. I’m still very happy with it. I recently realized how nice it is to have exactly what I want, when I tried to revitalize my work-related blog with a new Word Press theme and found absolutely nothing I liked.

I’m sorry to say that the other big changes were not additive, but, er, subtractive. I blogged less, 146 posts, compared to an average of 200 a year the first two years, with some fairly long stretches of radio silence. I also discontinued the Monday Morning Stepback, a weekly links and opinion post, because (1) preparing it took too much time (at one point I had over 300 feeds in my Google reader), (2) other bloggers often ended up posting the same links a day or so later anyway, and (3) I came to dread the potential for tension and upset it seemed to generate on occasion. I planned to attend both IASPR and RWA in New York, but family needs kept me away. I tried a couple of new things, neither of which I stuck with: (a) a Behind the Lines feature where I interviewed authors about a passage in a book (I actually really liked both of those posts), (b) and writing for Heroes and Heartbreakers (a site I think is a great addition to the blogsphere). So far in 2011, I have also commented on, and read less of, other blogs (I only have about a dozen romance blogs in my reader right now, and visit other blogs if the tweets look interesting), something about which I feel slightly guilty.

Noticing that comments were down, and seeing other bloggers note the same thing, in December I asked: Can Blogging Survive the Twitter and Tumblr Assault?, and funnily enough, got 49 comments. Commenting bounced back up (total of 9916), and I now realize the comment thing is cyclical. Comments are still my favorite part of blogging, and they continue to provide most of the value of this blog. The ongoing discussion of Loretta Chase’s The Last Hellion (where I am, as per usual, getting argued into submission) is just the latest example.

Continue Reading »

24 responses so far

Invention of Copyright, Handselling in Dublin, and Three Rules for Raising Your Teenaged Son

Jul 23 2011 Published by under Navel gazing

A few pictures and tales from my recent family trip.
In Ireland, we visited the 15th century Dysert O’Dea castle in County Clare, where I discovered the Irish version of how copyright came to be.

My family a mile ahead of me as I try to take photos

As Edward T. O’Donnell wrote in a 2001 column for the The Irish Echo:

 

One story that captures the essence of his personality involved an altercation with his mentor, Finian.  Columcille loved books, especially a psalter owned by Finian.  Secretly, he copied the manuscript in his room (in the dark with the page lit by light emanating from his fingertips according to one legend).  When Finian found out, he demanded the original and the copy (books were extremely rare in those days).  When Columcille refused to surrender the latter, the case went before King Diarmaid who issued his famous edict: “to every cow its calf, to every book its copy.”  Reluctantly, Columcille handed over the book.    It would not be his last encounter with the king.

 

Dublin is such a literary city. I knew this, because as an undergraduate at Boston College, I worked in the Burns Library of Rare Books and Special Collections (see beautiful interior shots here), which has a huge collection of papers, letters and manuscripts of Irish writers. My main job was organizing the letters of Catholic writer Hilaire Belloc, although I am pretty sure I spent most of my time writing my own love letters, none of which were as lovely as Belloc’s:

“….So again good night – if I could follow the night round her long whirl around the bend of the earth – at last I should come to you….”

Hilaire Belloc to Elodie Hogan, August 6, 1890

But it’s totally different to be there and actually visit birthplaces and homes. Iris Murdoch, Marian Keyes, Maeve Benchy, Patricia Scanlon, and of course, James Joyce, George Bernard Shaw, Jonathan Swift, Bram Stoker, and on and on. Inspired, I read Oscar Wilde’s Picture of Dorian Gray, and I hope to review it soon.

While in Dublin, we visited one of the many bookstores (sorry to say I cannot recall which), and an employee noticed me trying to help my nine year old son choose a book. He came over to us, sussed out our Americaness immediately (I am not sure whether it was the accents, the loud bickering, or the Adidas track pants), and proceeded to hand sell us books for 9-12 year olds by Irish authors, including The Skullduggery Pleasant, by Derek Landy, which he LOVES.

 

 

In Baltimore, Ireland we stayed with friends. Who had many siblings, and nieces and nephews. We were surrounded! But it was wonderful to “come to people” as they say. One of the women, who has four grown sons, gave me three rules for parenting through the teenage years:

1. You know nothing

2. Walk several paces behind.

3. Keep hugging him, even if he doesn’t want you to.

Here’s a shot of my pre-teen and his dad playing soccer in Baltimore:

 

We visited the Belfast Northern Ireland area, including the Giant’s Causeway, all of which we loved. The Belfast experience was especially powerful, both in seeing the remaining chicken wire, neighborhood gates, fences, and political murals and memorials to The Troubles, and in seeing the new vitality of the city in the beautiful new shopping mall (Victoria Square, were we saw Harry Potter 7.2), hotels, shops, municipal buildings, and restaurants.

But here’s a shot of the family at The Giant’s Causeway, on a rainy windy day:

 

 

VERY windy:

 

London was great, too, of course. We ended up staying in a heavily Middle Eastern area, with all signs in English and Arabic, the streets lined up and down by men smoking hookah pipes after work, and most women in traditional Muslim clothing, hijabs and ankle length gowns, many with face coverings as well. So that was an entirely new experience for us, but otherwise, the boys and I had fun visiting our usual haunts while the husband researched.

I read Jennifer Egan’s A Visit from the Good Squad, Courtney Milan’s novella Unlocked, the Oscar Wilde mentioned above, Julie Ann Long’s I Kissed an Earl and What I Did for a Duke, and Shannon Stacey’s Yours to Keep, all of which I enjoyed.

Fantastic trip, but we’re all happy to be home. Hope your summer is going well, too.

9 responses so far

Older posts »