Actually, there is nothing Yom Kippurish about this post, except that it’s going up just after Yom Kippur ends.

1. Links of interest

Kate Duffy, an editor at Kensington and much more, has passed away. If, like me, you are not in the business and had never heard of her, you can read tributes at Barnes and Noble and Smart Bitches Trashy Books which reveal her tremendous impact on the genre.  As a nonwriter, I rarely think about editors. But after reading those posts, it will be a long time before I forget about how important they are to creating the books I love.

Jane and Joan/Sarah F. at Dear Author posted a terrific reflection on the new Lambda Literary Awards criteria (which requires membership in the LGBT community, thus excluding straight authors who write GLBT fiction) at Dear Author last week, just after I posted last week’s Stepback, but it is such a good discussion (as long as you ignore any comments by “Anonymous”)  that it bears reminding people it is still ongoing.  An LLA board member posted on her own blog to clarify the situation here.

Author Victoria Janssen has been exploring category romance with guest bloggers for the past week. Today’s post is by Maili/McVane and like all of them, is well worth checking out if you don’t mind gnashing your teeth as the OOPness of some of them.

2. Blogs v. Boards

I was surfing around on the AAR boards, which I visit very infrequently, usually when someone there links here, and found this comment, But in no way can the eleventy zillion blogs that have popped up in romanceland be considered places for discussion.” I wasn’t put out in the least, because my blog happens to be the eleventy zillionth and one.

But I looked around, and I honestly can’t agree with that assessment, at least if the AAR boards are held up as a superior alternative to blogs. There are a lot of very short threads, and not many active ones, it seems to me. The one thread I found really interesting was one where the poster who asked if there’s a point at which romantic suspense becomes too violent to be categorized as romance. I happen to enjoy genre questions, but, if that thread is any indication, those folks don’t.

When I started this blog, I found it odd that boards were less active than blogs. I mentally compared it to the Disney boards I have been frequenting since 2002. The DIS community has 33,000 members, and 2 million threads. I know of few Disney blogs anyone on those boards visits.

Over the past year, I have come to see things a bit differently. For one thing, I  see a lot of the same people on blog after blog. It is not like each blog is a silo with its own group of strangers I have never encountered: there is a lot of overlap among the blogs I visit (which I like, although I know some find it incestuous and problematic). On the DIS, if I move from the Resorts board to the Off Site board, I encounter a whole different set of people (who tend to give each other the evil eye when they cross paths). Then, here, you have certain themes or topics that get treated on several different blogs at once, like the “manifesto” wave of recent times. Today, I believe that the multiple blogs in Romanceland do in fact end up replicating the community function of boards in many ways.

And just in case you think only Romland has its internecine conflicts, I will tell you what the issues are on the DIS that will start a 300 comment thread, get the mods involved, and get at least 2 people banned: 1. refillable mugs, 2. pool hopping, 3. getting your 10+ year old kid in on a child’s ticket. On a more serious note, I have also gotten in trouble for objecting when people write in to ask when Gay Days are held so they can avoid them.

3. Latina romance?

Back in the Spaniard's Bed, The Latin Lover

I hope this question is not ignorant to the point of upsetting anyone, but it occurred to me today that although I have seen lots of discussion about African American romance and m/m or f/f romance, and their categorization, and their marketing, and who can write them and who buys them, I don’t see that when it comes to the Hispanic community in the US. I know Harlequin publishes its books in Spanish, but it looks to me like they are translations, rather than, like the Kimani line, for example, written by and about the Hispanic audience.  And then there are books like the one pictured, which seem more in line with the Greek/Sheik characterization — not really  Latino in the way Kimanis are AA. Of course, there is tremendous diversity among Latinos, but they are 45 million strong in the US, a good 15% per cent of the population, and a growing market force. I know from watching The Soup on E! that telenovelas are very popular, and they are essentially romances, but are romance novels popular as well? And are some written by and for a Latina audience?

4. Contest winner

I am sorry for the delay (I plead Jewish holidays), but the winner of the 3 Romances that Really Cook contest is Phyl (please send your mailing address to jessica@racyromancereviews.com). If you haven’t checked out her blog, you should. She makes really nice quilts, not those old fashioned looking ones that remind you of your mortality, but really colorful, fun ones like this.

5. Embarrassing moment of the week. Erotica related.

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Spouse and I had to shop for a new mattress this week. After I gave in on upgrading to a king size (it’s usually not just us but at least one of the following: cat, dog, boy, in the bed at any given time), we went to test out queen size mattresses at our local furniture store. You are supposed to lie on each mattress for a full 15 minutes, but all I kept thinking about were all of the other people who had laid on them, and their potentially inadequate hygiene habits, and even Andre the Giant could not have kept me down on that thing for more than 90 seconds tops.

Anyway, we were laying there (lying? this is the one I always mess up.) and I wiggled my eyebrows and said, sotto voce, “you know, we really can’t be sure until we #%$#^&^*&^%$ [edited to protect the innocent]  on it.” I heard someone behind me clear his throat, and turned my head to look up into the eyes of the salesman.

It was a former student.

Happy week!




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