indecisive

Lately I’ve been hesitating about posting on certain topics that are already under discussion on other blogs.

I’ve been wondering whether adding my two cents on issues that are already being discussed in several other places is worth it.  Or is my desire to have my say and record my opinion enough?

For example, the topic of race and the cover image of Justine Larbalestier’s Liar has generated controversy across the blogosphere.

Second, the topic of abortion and romance came up over at Dear Author. This inspired Laura Vivanco to post more generally on politics in romance at Teach Me Tonight, but many of the comments touched on the abortion question as well. In that post, Laura linked to a discussion at AAR taking place at the same time about emergency contraception.  Some others decided to post their own thoughts on abortion and romance on their own blogs as well.

A third example is the ad for a book about incest at the Smart Bitches website, first discussed by Karen Scott, and then picked up by others.

I feel like I wear two hats when I blog. One hat is very academic: only say something if no one else has (or if no one has said it your way), i.e. “I’m contributing in some small way to knowledge!”

The other hat is a personal blogger hat where a blog is my mouthpiece, i.e. “I want you to know what I personally think! Even if it’s what everyone else thinks! Even if that other gal said it much earlier and much better!”

As to the latter, another question I ask myself is whether I need to have my say here, or someplace else. I kept mum on the Liar controversy, although I think blogger reaction contributed to a positive outcome (a new cover), so I wonder if I shouldn’t have added my voice to the chorus as a matter of civic duty. I contributed to the good discussion over at Karen’s and feel done with that. But I’ve been holding back a veritable novel of a post on abortion. After a 90 comment thread at DA and discussion several other places, who cares what I think?

I feel this tension with reviewing, too. I want this blog to record what I’ve read (thinking of my own wants), but I’m hesitant to write reviews of books that have just been reviewed from here to Sunday everywhere else (thinking about readers’ desires). Hence, my post on Attitudes Towards Women in Loretta Chase’s Don’t Tempt Me. I felt I had something new to say about that book. But what if I hadn’t? What if I had the same things to say about it that virtually everyone has reached consensus on in Romanceland (not her best, not her worst, characterization of heroine problematic, stereotyping of sisters)?

Someone will comment “It’s your blog, you can say whatever I want.”

But,  “It’s your blog, you can say whatever you want”, while true, doesn’t really help, if I want two things that are sometimes inconsistent: both to keep a personal record at RRR of my thoughts about certain books and controversies in Romanceland, and to maintain and grow an audience.

So, tell me, do you ever not post things you might enjoy or get something out of writing because you think no one else will enjoy or get anything out of reading them?

And how do you decide where to have your say — in the comments of another blog, or your own blog, or not at all?

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