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	<title>Comments on: Joint Review: The Madness of Lord Ian Mackenzie, by Jennifer Ashley</title>
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		<title>By: Gretchen Craig</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gretchen Craig</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Mar 2011 23:46:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-3873&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Karen&lt;/a&gt;: And it&#039;s a good thing!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a href="#comment-3873" rel="nofollow">Karen</a>: And it&#8217;s a good thing!</p>
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		<title>By: Gretchen Craig</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gretchen Craig</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Mar 2011 23:45:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Me too!  I love Ian McKenzie.  I do have Asperger&#039;s men in my family, but of course they are not twins to Ian.  I decided to let that go.  As you said, Ian is consistent and believable within the novel.  I did wonder what it says about women who would swoon for a character who is emotionally unavailable most of the time.  Because that is the case with my family Asperger&#039;s folks.  It&#039;s a problem.  But there is the heroine, who is also remarkable.  Not just any woman would be okay with Ian.  So we have two characters meant for each other.  Ahhh, fiction.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Me too!  I love Ian McKenzie.  I do have Asperger&#8217;s men in my family, but of course they are not twins to Ian.  I decided to let that go.  As you said, Ian is consistent and believable within the novel.  I did wonder what it says about women who would swoon for a character who is emotionally unavailable most of the time.  Because that is the case with my family Asperger&#8217;s folks.  It&#8217;s a problem.  But there is the heroine, who is also remarkable.  Not just any woman would be okay with Ian.  So we have two characters meant for each other.  Ahhh, fiction.</p>
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		<title>By: Jessica</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jessica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Sep 2009 22:47:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;Karen&lt;/b&gt; wrote:
&lt;blockquote&gt;I really love this depiction of a hero with Aspergers. And while some see Beth as perhaps too “perfect” for Ian, she is indeed much the sort of woman many men with Aspergers tend to marry.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Karen, thank you so much for sharing your view on the book. I&#039;m so glad you enjoy it!  I bet the author would absolutely love it if you took a moment to email her.

My understanding, based on reading articles in neuroscience and philosophy journals, and not on my own expertise or experience, is that both impairment in cognitive empathy (correctly guessing what others are thinking and feeling)  and in affective empathy (having the right emotional response to someone else&#039;s emotional states) are more common in people with ASD. However, I also now realize that failure to respond to others&#039; cues in a way we non-ASD folks consider socially appropriate (such as not looking someone in the eye ) is NOT a reliable sign of lack of empathy in people with ASD. I am sorry to have made that stupid assumption.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Karen</b> wrote:</p>
<blockquote><p>I really love this depiction of a hero with Aspergers. And while some see Beth as perhaps too “perfect” for Ian, she is indeed much the sort of woman many men with Aspergers tend to marry.</p></blockquote>
<p>Karen, thank you so much for sharing your view on the book. I&#8217;m so glad you enjoy it!  I bet the author would absolutely love it if you took a moment to email her.</p>
<p>My understanding, based on reading articles in neuroscience and philosophy journals, and not on my own expertise or experience, is that both impairment in cognitive empathy (correctly guessing what others are thinking and feeling)  and in affective empathy (having the right emotional response to someone else&#8217;s emotional states) are more common in people with ASD. However, I also now realize that failure to respond to others&#8217; cues in a way we non-ASD folks consider socially appropriate (such as not looking someone in the eye ) is NOT a reliable sign of lack of empathy in people with ASD. I am sorry to have made that stupid assumption.</p>
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		<title>By: Karen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Sep 2009 12:51:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I got about half-way through this book last night and, recognizing the symptoms of Aspergers, was interested to see what other people thought of the book.  I have a teenager with Aspergers Syndrome as well as a sibling with AS and have read a great deal about Aspergers.  In my opinion, the book is very true to a person with higher functioning Aspergers.  Lack of eye contact in Aspergers does not signify inability to empathize.  Instead, according to many Aspie&#039;s accounts, it&#039;s more about their own uncertainty during the flow of communication.  I&#039;ve noticed that some Aspies who are quite good at drama or other performance talents like singing, can make excellent contact with an audience during a performance, because they already know exactly what they are going to say and do and they don&#039;t have to deal with a &quot;give and take&quot; situation as in a conversation.  Aspies can become much better at eye contact after they come to know someone *very* well and are more comfortable about how to talk and respond to that person.  Because of that, I am not so concerned about Ian&#039;s ability to relate to Beth as their relationship grows over the years.  

I really love this depiction of a hero with Aspergers.  And while some see Beth as perhaps too &quot;perfect&quot; for Ian, she is indeed much the sort of woman many men with Aspergers tend to marry.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I got about half-way through this book last night and, recognizing the symptoms of Aspergers, was interested to see what other people thought of the book.  I have a teenager with Aspergers Syndrome as well as a sibling with AS and have read a great deal about Aspergers.  In my opinion, the book is very true to a person with higher functioning Aspergers.  Lack of eye contact in Aspergers does not signify inability to empathize.  Instead, according to many Aspie&#8217;s accounts, it&#8217;s more about their own uncertainty during the flow of communication.  I&#8217;ve noticed that some Aspies who are quite good at drama or other performance talents like singing, can make excellent contact with an audience during a performance, because they already know exactly what they are going to say and do and they don&#8217;t have to deal with a &#8220;give and take&#8221; situation as in a conversation.  Aspies can become much better at eye contact after they come to know someone *very* well and are more comfortable about how to talk and respond to that person.  Because of that, I am not so concerned about Ian&#8217;s ability to relate to Beth as their relationship grows over the years.  </p>
<p>I really love this depiction of a hero with Aspergers.  And while some see Beth as perhaps too &#8220;perfect&#8221; for Ian, she is indeed much the sort of woman many men with Aspergers tend to marry.</p>
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		<title>By: Kate</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 06:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m about two-thirds through this one, and I&#039;m a little mixed about it, to be honest. The writing is good and I don&#039;t mind Ian though I&#039;m having a hard time identifying with him - and I have had the &quot;I wonder if this is remotely accurate&quot; thoughts in regards to his autism. (Can he really be savant-ish at multiple things? Is that possible? I&#039;m no expert, honestly, but it seems off. But again, no expert here. Never mind that yes, it&#039;s fiction, and there&#039;s a lot of license a person could and should take.) I&#039;m holding actual opinions until I&#039;m finished and I am enjoying it, honestly. I&#039;m just not certain how much I&#039;ll like it when I&#039;m through with it.

Good reviews!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m about two-thirds through this one, and I&#8217;m a little mixed about it, to be honest. The writing is good and I don&#8217;t mind Ian though I&#8217;m having a hard time identifying with him &#8211; and I have had the &#8220;I wonder if this is remotely accurate&#8221; thoughts in regards to his autism. (Can he really be savant-ish at multiple things? Is that possible? I&#8217;m no expert, honestly, but it seems off. But again, no expert here. Never mind that yes, it&#8217;s fiction, and there&#8217;s a lot of license a person could and should take.) I&#8217;m holding actual opinions until I&#8217;m finished and I am enjoying it, honestly. I&#8217;m just not certain how much I&#8217;ll like it when I&#8217;m through with it.</p>
<p>Good reviews!</p>
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		<title>By: Tumperkin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tumperkin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 19:21:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Janice - I&#039;d be fascinated to hear what you think.

Kristie - I agree.  And agree and agree.  Earthy.  Brothers - roles.  And Beth/Sarah.  All of it.  I already knew you loved this one but even if I hadn&#039;t, I&#039;d&#039;ve known this would appeal to you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Janice &#8211; I&#8217;d be fascinated to hear what you think.</p>
<p>Kristie &#8211; I agree.  And agree and agree.  Earthy.  Brothers &#8211; roles.  And Beth/Sarah.  All of it.  I already knew you loved this one but even if I hadn&#8217;t, I&#8217;d've known this would appeal to you.</p>
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		<title>By: KristieJ</title>
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		<dc:creator>KristieJ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 16:43:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>* squealing in delight, doin&#039; the happy dance and sighing in contentment all at the same time*

I&#039;m so glad you both loved this book as much as I did and &#039;see&#039; what I did in it.  You put it extremely well:
&quot;Sometimes, when I’m really enjoying a book, I just race through it.  If I get even five minutes peace, my hand will stray towards it and I’ll fit in however many pages I can.  I’ll gorge and guzzle it; devour it the way you might eat a chocolate bar when you’re hungry.  And sometimes that greediness leaves me with a feeling of regret afterwards, wishing I’d savoured it more even though I know that the regret is misplaced.  Because the compulsion is part of the enjoyment. The Madness of Lord Ian Mackenzie was such a book for me.  I read it over a couple of days, snatching every chance to pack in a few pages.&quot;

That&#039;s exactly what I did when I read this one - raced through it &#039;cause I couldn&#039;t get enough, then regretted that I did because it was over but then glad I&#039;m a rereader because I could quite happily read it a second time - this time absorbing it better - and then a third and fourth time.
I wish I had the words to explain what it is that makes a book like Lord Ian stand out above others - so much so that I can&#039;t seem to move on until it&#039;s out of my system so to speak - but this one has it in spades.  LOL - Tumperkin - I&#039;m glad your standing with me on what a great hero Ian is.  One wants to mother him and have hawt, sweaty, earthy sex all at the same time.   And earthy is one of the reasons I loved this one - heh heh heh!!
And I didn&#039;t mind the sequel bait as each brother had an important role IMO as to defining Ian and his relationships with them and with &#039;his Beth&#039;.  They weren&#039;t simply standing around so we could &#039;see&#039; them and wait for their stories.
And comparing the heroine Beth to another recent book that blew me out of the water - Broken Wing - I think I like Beth just a bit better then Sarah.  I thought Beth was more fully rounded with her good experiences of sex.  I thought she &#039;matched&#039; Ian just a tad bit better -though don&#039;t get me wrong - I really enjoyed Sarah too :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>* squealing in delight, doin&#8217; the happy dance and sighing in contentment all at the same time*</p>
<p>I&#8217;m so glad you both loved this book as much as I did and &#8216;see&#8217; what I did in it.  You put it extremely well:<br />
&#8220;Sometimes, when I’m really enjoying a book, I just race through it.  If I get even five minutes peace, my hand will stray towards it and I’ll fit in however many pages I can.  I’ll gorge and guzzle it; devour it the way you might eat a chocolate bar when you’re hungry.  And sometimes that greediness leaves me with a feeling of regret afterwards, wishing I’d savoured it more even though I know that the regret is misplaced.  Because the compulsion is part of the enjoyment. The Madness of Lord Ian Mackenzie was such a book for me.  I read it over a couple of days, snatching every chance to pack in a few pages.&#8221;</p>
<p>That&#8217;s exactly what I did when I read this one &#8211; raced through it &#8217;cause I couldn&#8217;t get enough, then regretted that I did because it was over but then glad I&#8217;m a rereader because I could quite happily read it a second time &#8211; this time absorbing it better &#8211; and then a third and fourth time.<br />
I wish I had the words to explain what it is that makes a book like Lord Ian stand out above others &#8211; so much so that I can&#8217;t seem to move on until it&#8217;s out of my system so to speak &#8211; but this one has it in spades.  LOL &#8211; Tumperkin &#8211; I&#8217;m glad your standing with me on what a great hero Ian is.  One wants to mother him and have hawt, sweaty, earthy sex all at the same time.   And earthy is one of the reasons I loved this one &#8211; heh heh heh!!<br />
And I didn&#8217;t mind the sequel bait as each brother had an important role IMO as to defining Ian and his relationships with them and with &#8216;his Beth&#8217;.  They weren&#8217;t simply standing around so we could &#8216;see&#8217; them and wait for their stories.<br />
And comparing the heroine Beth to another recent book that blew me out of the water &#8211; Broken Wing &#8211; I think I like Beth just a bit better then Sarah.  I thought Beth was more fully rounded with her good experiences of sex.  I thought she &#8216;matched&#8217; Ian just a tad bit better -though don&#8217;t get me wrong &#8211; I really enjoyed Sarah too <img src='http://www.readreactreview.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Aoife</title>
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		<dc:creator>Aoife</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 14:02:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I really liked this book a lot.  There were times when I didn&#039;t think Ashley got Ian quite right, so far as the Asperger&#039;s goes, but overall, I loved Ian, and liked Beth and their relationship.  However, having said that, I neither particularly liked nor was interested in the other brothers.  The next books in the series won&#039;t go on my to-buy list unless they get some glowing reviews from sources whose tastes run along with mine.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really liked this book a lot.  There were times when I didn&#8217;t think Ashley got Ian quite right, so far as the Asperger&#8217;s goes, but overall, I loved Ian, and liked Beth and their relationship.  However, having said that, I neither particularly liked nor was interested in the other brothers.  The next books in the series won&#8217;t go on my to-buy list unless they get some glowing reviews from sources whose tastes run along with mine.</p>
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		<title>By: Janice</title>
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		<dc:creator>Janice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 02:20:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Speaking as the parent of a child with autism, I&#039;d dispute the argument that people on the spectrum (including those with Asperger&#039;s) lack empathy or fail to understand emotions. In our experience, our child is extremely sensitive to these issues. They&#039;re so strongly felt or so difficult to mediate that merely being in the same room with someone who&#039;s speaking in mock anger or watching a TV show with a scene of sorrow can cause wails of upset to pour forth.

I will have to pick up this book now and give it a read myself to see how it comes across to me. Kudos to the author for recognizing, as so few have, that this is a condition that has a long historical existence if very limited understanding until quite recently.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Speaking as the parent of a child with autism, I&#8217;d dispute the argument that people on the spectrum (including those with Asperger&#8217;s) lack empathy or fail to understand emotions. In our experience, our child is extremely sensitive to these issues. They&#8217;re so strongly felt or so difficult to mediate that merely being in the same room with someone who&#8217;s speaking in mock anger or watching a TV show with a scene of sorrow can cause wails of upset to pour forth.</p>
<p>I will have to pick up this book now and give it a read myself to see how it comes across to me. Kudos to the author for recognizing, as so few have, that this is a condition that has a long historical existence if very limited understanding until quite recently.</p>
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		<title>By: Jill D.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jill D.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 01:41:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Damn, this seals the deal.  I am now officially adding this to the TBR pile.  Sigh* another for the already gigantic pile.  I just can&#039;t seem to resist a hero that goes after his woman.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Damn, this seals the deal.  I am now officially adding this to the TBR pile.  Sigh* another for the already gigantic pile.  I just can&#8217;t seem to resist a hero that goes after his woman.</p>
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