I interviewed my husband about Sherry Thomas’s new release, Not Quite a Husband, which I loved (my review to come). NQAH follows the adventures of divorced couple Bryony Asquith and Quentin Marsden as they journey back home to England through the North-west frontier of India at the time of the Swat Valley Uprising.
Here’s a nice summary of the event, from a longer article connecting those events of over a century ago to current events (the Swat Valley, now part of Pakistan, is where Taliban forces have led an uprising to enforce sharia law in the past two years):
The uprisings of 1897 began in the Swat Valley, when Sadullah a local holy man (the British, predictably, dubbed him the ‘Mad Mullah’) preached the need for jihad against the foreign government in mosques and marketplaces. In late July, at the height of summer heat, tens of thousands of armed Pathans attacked government forts. After having ignored the trouble building up along the Frontier for several years, the authorities in the summer capital at Simla finally decided that a major response was required.
Three full battalions designated as the Malakand Field Force were sent from the plains up into the hills. Accompanying them as both soldier and free-lance reporter for London’s Daily Telegraph was young Second Lieutenant Winston Churchill.
By the end of August, the force had reached the difficult and remote upper reaches of the Swat Valley. But Mullah Sadullah had evaded capture and was now raising followers in a wide area, reaching down to the Kyber Pass well to the south. Storming through the Pass, tribesmen threatened to occupy Peshawar itself — unless government forces were withdrawn from Swat.
Eventually the Raj put an even larger army of 60,000 well-armed men into the field. After bitter fighting with heavy government losses the British undertook a ruthless scorched-earth campaign in which villages, wells and orchards were levelled. The approaching winter more than British might forced the rebellious tribes to sue for peace … for the meantime.
My husband is a history professor, who specializes in the British Empire of the late Victorian period. Although his exact specialty is the Boer War (more on that below), he knows something about India as well.
Here’s me picking his brain:
Me (reading NQAH on my Kindle): Were there such things as “punitive expeditions”?
Him: Punitive uprisings were when the British army would punish an African or Asian power which they felt had challenged their authority in the region. That’s in your book? Really?
Me: Yes, really.
Him: Wow. Are you reading a romance?
Me (in a warning tone): Yes.
Him: Hunh.
Me (pondering chucking my Kindle at his head. Deciding against it. After all, it’s a pretty expensive little toy): Yes, and the descriptions of the siege of this British fort are really chock full of details, and intense, yet easy to follow. Having read both of your books, I can say with authority that she gives you a run for your money.
Him: Let me see that. [Grabs my Kindle and reads several pages of the siege]. I’m impressed. She’s got the bit right about the rebels using older weapons with black powder against British soldier using breech loading weapons and smokeless powder. That would be an easy detail to miss. And look, the hero’s reference to the Russians — the competition between Russia and Great Britain for control of Central Asia was referred to as “the Great Game.” Kipling wrote about it in Kim (1901). [Hands Kindle back to me]
Me [Thrusting Kindle back to him]: Keep reading.
Him: Well…. it’s really very accurate, as far as I can tell. Remember this is not my area. I would think you only need to read one or two primary sources to get it right.
Me: She has.
Him: Hmmm. Well, here’s one thing that strikes me. The way she describes it, it’s as if soldiers are firing all the time. That could have happened. But it would have been unlikely. Until the mutiny there was an Indian army run by a private concern, the British East India Company, but afterwards power over the sub-continent was transferred directly to the government in London. A government appointed viceroy ruled locally for the cabinet and later the Queen in 1876 was crowned Empress of India. The Indian Army became part of the British army. You find white officers but you don’t find many other whites in the army. The army was predominantly an army of Sepoys, a term used for native soldiers. Upon India’s very large and disparate population, the British attempted to impose a kind of order that made sense to them, by elevating certain groups or “races”, like Sikhs, which they deemed to possess “martial” qualities above other more “feminine” races. But still the army was predominantly a native army. This was always a concern for both civil and military authorities. So in 1897-8, the British, relying on soldiers who they often under-valued, utilized very traditional square tactics in which the officer would give the order to fire. This way the officer could control the movement and the fire of their troops. Kind of like in the movie Zulu.
[He totally typed in about half of that last comment after the fact. Sheesh. Never let a source review your interview.]
Me: Here’s something that struck me: the heroine thinks that using Dum-Dum bullets violates the Geneva Convention. I thought the Geneva Convention came later?
Him: You’re not asking me to go through this and find errors? And then blogging about it? This isn’t history. It’s fiction. And I’m not a jerk. Usually.
Me: No no no. I heart this book. We’ll talk about other things in a minute.
Him: Did you just use “heart” as a verb?
Me: Yes, but I reserve it for very special books.
Him: [Looking at me with worry.]: Ok, there was an early Geneva convention, in 1864, but it covered mostly the care of wounded soldiers and prisoners of war. The Geneva convention we talk about today is, of course, largely the creation of the post war (World War II) world. At any rate, the Geneva Convention did not regulate weapons. That would have been the Hague Conventions, the first of which was 1899, two years after the action is taking place in the novel. Although certainly there were legal discussions in the 1890s about acceptable weapons in combat. But I would have to double check to be 100% positive. She has done a lot of good research. By the way, Winston Churchill, whom you say she relied on for this book, ironically was caught with Mark IV, or dum-dum bullets, during the Boer War.
Me: How about race relations? Why would Indians have agreed to do all of this scut work for the British travelers?
Him: Well, like everywhere, people need money. The British imposed a rigorous tax system over much of India or utilized systems which were in place prior to their control. Many Indians even sold themselves into indentured servitude. They ended up all over the world, in South Africa, the Caribbean, and elsewhere. Perhaps some viewed this as a better option.
Me: What do you think of the word “coolies”?
Him: The English would have referred to most Indians (and Chinese as well) as “coolies” but a historian today would never use that word, at least not without scare quotes. It’s like the n word. Also, the author suggests, when she writes, “The Swatis don’t have much of a reputation as fighters — the other pathans look down on them”, that ethnic and class divisions were inherent among Indians, but it’s very complicated. British rule helped establish these distinctions and hierarchies. As I mentioned, the British had a very strong belief in the idea of “martial races”, that some Indians were capable of doing certain things, like fighting, others not so much. The British themselves had a sense of who was a better fighter.
Me: You have read and taught a lot of postcolonial literature and historiography. From that perspective, what do you think of a book like this?
Him: Well, someone like Chinua Achebe would say she is using the Orient merely as a backdrop to tell a story about white people that will engage white readers. It is a colonial narrative. She’s writing for a certain audience.
Me: Yes, I think that’s how it functions as well. I think a lot of romance writers start with the characters and then put them somewhere. The focus is on the romance, and the romance is normally between white characters. On her blog, Thomas talks about choosing among three different dramatic settings for her story, one of which was South Africa during the Boer War. She says that it didn’t meet her needs for a dramatic landscape. Care to comment?
Him: Well, no, there’s nothing as dramatic as the base of the Himalayas in South Africa. But the Kalahari desert, the coastline, the Drakensberg mountains – these are certainly very dramatic. The kopjes (hills) and the number of passes the British tried to control during the war could be an interesting setting.
Me: Ah, yes, kopjes. Are you still mad at me for summarizing your first book as “They ran up the hill. They fired. They ran down the hill. The end.”?
Him: Until just now, I had forgiven you for that.
Me: Moving on. Give me some ideas for a romance set in South Africa during the Boer War.
Him: You should write one. I’ll help you. And we can test out the love scenes. [Leers.]
Me (witheringly): You clearly have no respect for the craft. Answer my question.
Him: Well, you don’t want to have a stereotype of the dashing cultured British officer sweeping rural hick Afrikaner off her feet by his charm. The Boers were a very tight knit old community, with very set morals. A Boer woman may have gone off with a British man, but it would have been very rare. The thing to do would be to have a dashing young British officer — of which there would have been many because they were volunteers — and you could have an English nurse or an English colonial, or [really getting into it now. Shit. He looks like he's about to write a synopsis. Help!!] a Frenchwoman who was traveling through to go on a safari and then the war broke out. In Zulu they stuck some Swedish missionary woman in to the mix. There are plenty of ways to do it. It could be set in one of the besieged cities (Kimberly, Ladysmith or, the most famous — because it is the longest siege — Mafeking).
Me: Thank you for not waggling your eyebrows when you just said “missionary”. That’s a lot of self-control from you. One last question. You read historical fiction, when you are not reading bios of hippie musicians. What do you think about the issue of historical accuracy in fiction in general?
Him: Well, take this book. It is very unlikely that you would have a female surgeon, that she would be traipsing as a single woman throughout India, that she would know the things she knows about the political situation, and international law, and that her ex-husband would be not only a famous mathematician but also….. [mild spoiler] ……….. a spy who just happened to take aerial photos from a balloon of the very region they are in. …………..[end spoiler] But it works because (a) all of the background details are right (landscape, technology, warfare, clothing, etc.) and (b) nothing impossible is posited. There likely was at least one actual case of each of these people or events. Sure, there’s only a very remote chance they would all happen this way, but you don’t get thrown out of the story because everything else feels right, it hangs together.
Me: Thank you for giving me the time you would otherwise have used to watch Dr. Who edit your article. One last question. Do you remember this?

June 1996
Him (smiling): Yep.
Me: Happiest day of my life.
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#1 by Ana on June 3, 2009 - 11:12 am
That was the most fascinating post I read in a while.
I love your voices, and the interaction between the hero and heroine. wait. no. scrap that.
I love your conversation with your hubby, Jessica. he sounds like a fascinating person/historian/man. Very cool idea for a post, very in-depth discussion about the book and its background. A winner.
and I totally HEART this:
“Him: You should write one. I’ll help you. And we can test out the love scenes. [Leers.] ”
: D
#2 by KMont on June 3, 2009 - 11:25 am
I’m going to write one of those infamous “not helping a damn thing” comments, but…. I loved this post! Because it’s true. Both for yours and your husband’s banter and the historical data. Love history, especially discussed like this.
BTW, I just haven’t been blog hopping much lately and just now have seen it, but I’m liking your new layout.
#3 by Sherry Thomas on June 3, 2009 - 11:40 am
Oooh. Can I just say I’m honored to have my research discussed by two professors. LOL.
I have to rush out of the house in a mo–Junior Kidlet volunteered me for water day–but just want to drop this bit from p175 of The Story of the Malakand Field Force, the primary source for the siege of Chakdarra in Not Quite a Husband, about the Geneva Convention and the Dum-Dum bullets:
Continental critics have asked whether such a bullet is not a violation of the Geneva or St. Petersburg Conventions; but no clause
of these international agreements forbids expansive bullets, and the only provision on the subject is that shells less than a certain size
shall not be employed.
I’m totally not surprised Churchill got caught with those same Dum-dum bullets later, cuz if I had gone on quoting, you’d see he was quite a proponent.
And Leo, no spoiler here, wasn’t really a spy. He was just kind of along for the ride for the ballooning mission, the way I saw it.
#4 by jillsorenson on June 3, 2009 - 11:52 am
Nothing better than romance novel banter w/ leering husbands. Like Tumperkin’s “Yes, that.” So funny and familiar.
I heart this post.
#5 by Phyl on June 3, 2009 - 12:17 pm
Thanks to both you and hubby for sharing all that. Fascinating. I just read NQAH last week and also loved it (looking forward to your review). I have always preferred historial romance or straight historical fiction for the glimpses into other times and places. Sometimes, though, without doing the research myself, I have no idea if what I’m reading is accurate or not. It’s so nice to know that Sherry’s book is accurate, and to learn a little more about that region of the world.
#6 by janicu on June 3, 2009 - 12:27 pm
Ohh, must buy this book for mom. Saw her reading another Sherry Thomas over Christmas and she LOVES reading up on the history of the Indian subcontinent. Perfect.
#7 by Lauren on June 3, 2009 - 12:29 pm
I loved this post. Partly because it makes me happy to read interactions between couples and partly because my husband is a lot like this when we discuss things too (and can I add how much I love how he tossed out Chinua Achibe like that?)
#8 by Victoria Janssen on June 3, 2009 - 1:34 pm
*geeks out on historical details*
#9 by heidenkind on June 3, 2009 - 2:05 pm
Really interesting! It’s nice to have an expert around sometimes.
The book sounds good, too.
#10 by Kristen on June 3, 2009 - 2:12 pm
This was quite fun to read. Thanks for it. And thanks for your hubby on his contributions.
#11 by Lusty Reader on June 3, 2009 - 2:12 pm
i swear, reading romance novels through middle school is what made me pass my history classes. i didn’t get to use some of the other things the books taught me until much later though
also, the end of your post gave me goosebumps, in a good way. i’m such a sap, this post was awesome on so many levels!
#12 by azteclady on June 3, 2009 - 2:31 pm
First, wow! That’s just lovely. From the discussion to the photograph. :happy sigh: lovely!
But the pedantic bitch in me has to ask: the base of the Himalayas in South Africa?
#13 by Collette on June 3, 2009 - 4:23 pm
This was really fascinating, especially for someone who typically skips the fighting descriptions. (Ducks and hides from your husband.)
And, Happy Anniversary!
#14 by ReacherFan on June 3, 2009 - 5:03 pm
That was great. I think many historical romances are far more accurate in their detail than many think – and some are far worse. I’m glad Sherry Thomas did her research because I bought the book yesterday.
#15 by Jessica on June 3, 2009 - 6:54 pm
Gosh, I thought “no one is going to want to read this” when I wrote it. I am so glad people have enjoyed it. Thanks for letting us know!
Ana wrote:
Just wait. I am going to write a terrible romance novel set in South Africa with lines like, “Her heart beat like the drums of the Zulu. Her orgasm crashed over her with the power of lion foot thuds across the plain.”
KMont wrote:
Oh, I know. I get so overwhwelmed trying to keep up. I rely on Twitter and gossip to tell me what posts I cannot miss these days. And thank you!
Sherry Thomas wrote:
Thank you for commenting! We shouldn’t have used “ironically” in there then — it was true to Churchill’s views to use the bullets!
And I didn’t read it as a super spoiler – I know he’s an academic at heart — but I was trying to be extra cautious.
Phyl wrote:
I’m so glad. It deserves a wide audience.
janicu wrote:
I think if you liked Thomas’s previous two outings you will definitely like this one. I think her voice is strong and distinct and in all three books she explores themes of relationships in distress.
Lauren wrote:
Thanks for stopping by! I don’t know about your husband, but mine gets less mature every year. and I love him for it!
Kristen wrote:
I will. He’s very gratified by the positive comments.
azteclady wrote:
Yeah, it’s hard to believe it’s been thirteen years almost to the day since that picture was taken.
LOL, and I worded that sentence funny. Yeah, he knows the Himalayas aren’t in South Africa! Try rereading it with a different emphasis. It does make sense, I think.
ReacherFan wrote:
Yes, absolutely!
#16 by Wanderer on June 3, 2009 - 8:06 pm
Great post! At first I thought the history info would be too text book for me to enjoy but the more I read the more I thought your hubby has very zexy brain
And a funny streak to boot (testing out the love scenes LOL). The fun banter you guys have is great. Thanks for providing a different view of a book and the fun history lesson. Now, adding NQAH to my ‘to get’ list.
#17 by azteclady on June 3, 2009 - 8:19 pm
I’m an idiot–I read it again and finally got it *head desk* :sigh: sorry
#18 by Janine on June 3, 2009 - 8:23 pm
Jessica, I am *so* envious of you for having an in-house expert on the history of the British Empire, you have no idea.
You guys sound so cute! And he’s right, you should write one.
#19 by Kaetrin on June 3, 2009 - 9:59 pm
Oh, what a great post!
Thanks for sharing – looks like dinner would be lively in your house.
I’m a sap for a happy marriage with good humour oozing out everywhere.
Can I see a bigger picture of the wedding please? (I’m a sap for weddings too…) You’re too far away and I can’t see your dress…
As for the book, this one is on my TBB list for sure. I’ve read Sherry’s other books and enjoyed them and I LOVE LOVE LOVE books set in India around that time (eg MM Kaye’s Shadows of the Moon and The Far Pavillions, the first half of Duke of Shadows by Meredith Duran). It’s nice to know the history is accurate – I’ve read enough about the era that it would really throw me out of the story if this were wrong.
I’m looking forward to your review also.
#20 by limecello on June 3, 2009 - 11:55 pm
AAAAAAAAAAAAwwwwwwweeeeee. Best. Post. Ever! Haha I’m seriously geeked out. There are times I regret not majoring in history. I think it’s great the two of you went through NQaH – I love getting the background and historical details.
And – happy belated anniversary!
[And uber geek moment; loved the look into the Geneva convention(s) too. Must refrain from researching it.]
#21 by Ann Somerville on June 4, 2009 - 12:17 am
This was so cute
And fascinating to me because pre-mutiny Calcutta is where my research subject was based. The attitude to British towards Indians pre mutiny and post mutiny were very different, and quite complex. Anyway, DH sounds like a scholar and a gentleman, and therefore a good match for you.
#22 by KristieJ on June 4, 2009 - 6:11 am
LOL – I loved that exchange with your husband. It just warms the cockles of my heart to see husband and wife discussing romance novels – even if the husband is somewhat sceptical
#23 by Carolyn Crane (CJ) on June 4, 2009 - 8:09 am
This was absolutely delightful. Now I really want to read this book. And thanks for asking him such great questions, too, like about the colonial narrative issue. When I heard it was about India of this time, I was like, Yay! Because I like the way the setting worked in Duran, without thinking any further than that. I have to get this book.
Also, I clicked on your bridal picture hoping to enlarge it to see your brides dress because you know it is EVIL to show us that photo without letting us see the bride’s dress, because, speaking for myself here, I am genetically programmed with an irresistible urge stare at it for at least 3.5 minutes. Then I was like, shit, she is going to see from her stats that I did that. But it wasn’t enlargable.
Can’t wait to read your review!
#24 by Carolyn Crane (CJ) on June 4, 2009 - 8:10 am
PS: I’m going to handle that RSS thing from my side.
#25 by Jessica on June 4, 2009 - 10:02 am
CJ– I am sorry I have not even attempted to fix your feed. I will look at it tonight! And, our anniversary is coming up. I will post a picture of me in all my Italian American Princess (Sequins and Seed Pearl Edition) glory, I promise.
#26 by Carolyn Crane (CJ) on June 4, 2009 - 11:57 am
I just said that bc I think it’s my fault! Not to spur you on. Can’t wait for the picture.
#27 by Maya M. on June 4, 2009 - 11:25 pm
‘They ran up the hill. They ran down the hill.’
Hahaha! I feel for your husband at that succinct yet heartless summary.
#28 by Violet on June 5, 2009 - 6:48 am
I really enjoyed this post. I would love to read this book.
Being an Indian I can say that your husband is pretty right but then I guess you already know that.
coolie is also a word used in Hindi (national language of India) for people who take money for carrying your luggage from the train to the cab or wherever.
#29 by Tumperkin on June 5, 2009 - 8:05 am
I’ve been saving up on reading this post till I had more than 2 mins. Just great.
I’ve not read any Boer war set romance. As wars-as-settings-for-romance go, you have to go a long way to beat the Napoleonic wars. I mean, Waterloo. Does it get better?
#30 by Ann Somerville on June 5, 2009 - 8:08 am
” I mean, Waterloo. Does it get better?”
Well, I’m a big fan of ‘Knowing me, knowing you’ personally
#31 by Jessica on June 5, 2009 - 8:51 am
Violet wrote:
Violet, thank you for sharing your view. Is the word considered insulting in the luggage-carrying context as well?
Tumperkin wrote:
Actually, a Boer War romance was written in 1905:
ON THE FIRING LINE. By Anna Chapin Ray and Hamilton Brock Fuller. 12mo. Boston: Little, Brown & Co. (you can find it on google books).
This is from the NYT review:
“Assisted by Mr. Hamilton Brock Fuller, Miss Anna Chapin Ray has written a new novel, the background of which is the Boer war. Together they have made a very interesting story. Two nice, clean, stalwart, healthy Canadians journey to South Africa to enlist in active service. On the boat which carries them to their destination is a young English girl, whose home is in Cape Town.”
Ann Somerville wrote:
And with the ABBA reference, this thread has officially jumped the shark!
#32 by Jennifer on June 5, 2009 - 1:36 pm
Wow. This is a great post. It also made me laugh out loud several times. Kudos to your husband for not waggling when he said missionary – mine definitely would have!
#33 by Sunita on June 5, 2009 - 3:58 pm
// Is the word considered insulting in the luggage-carrying context as well?//
I’m not Violet, but I’d say no, as long as you’re a non-white Hindi speaker. I don’t think it would be as neutral if it were used by foreigners. I’ve heard it used frequently at train stations, but more often to refer to the person rather than as a direct address.
ETA: Your husband sounds like a doll. For someone who claims it’s not his field, his comments are spot on. Of course, when a historian says something’s not his field, he means he’s only read the archives once, rather than a million times.
#34 by Liz on July 18, 2010 - 7:24 pm
I finally got around to reading NQaH, which brought me to re-read this post (and then your review . . . and then your posts on Delicious). Just wanted to say how much I enjoyed them all, and the great responses they elicited from your readers, too.