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	<title>Comments on: Review: She&#8217;s Got It Bad, by Sarah Mayberry</title>
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		<title>By: Janine</title>
		<link>http://www.readreactreview.com/2009/04/06/review-shes-got-it-bad-by-sarah-mayberry/#comment-2116</link>
		<dc:creator>Janine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2009 18:52:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;Hmmm, that makes me wonder what the difference is between an adult book about a teen romance and a YA on the same topic.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Mainly explicit sex.  But I also think some issues, such as the heroine&#039;s drug use, might have been dealt with differently (perhaps in a more didactic way) if &lt;i&gt;One on One&lt;/i&gt; had been aimed at teens.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Hmmm, that makes me wonder what the difference is between an adult book about a teen romance and a YA on the same topic.</p></blockquote>
<p>Mainly explicit sex.  But I also think some issues, such as the heroine&#8217;s drug use, might have been dealt with differently (perhaps in a more didactic way) if <i>One on One</i> had been aimed at teens.</p>
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		<title>By: Jessica</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jessica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2009 09:39:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;Janine&lt;/b&gt; wrote:
&lt;blockquote&gt;If you don’t mind reading an adult book about a teenage romance, I have the perfect book for you.  One on One by Tabitha King.
&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Hmmm, that makes me wonder what the difference is between an adult book about a teen romance and a YA on the same topic.

I have read one T. King, years ago. I&#039;ll add this one to the list!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Janine</b> wrote:</p>
<blockquote><p>If you don’t mind reading an adult book about a teenage romance, I have the perfect book for you.  One on One by Tabitha King.
</p></blockquote>
<p>Hmmm, that makes me wonder what the difference is between an adult book about a teen romance and a YA on the same topic.</p>
<p>I have read one T. King, years ago. I&#8217;ll add this one to the list!</p>
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		<title>By: Janine</title>
		<link>http://www.readreactreview.com/2009/04/06/review-shes-got-it-bad-by-sarah-mayberry/#comment-2108</link>
		<dc:creator>Janine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2009 06:34:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;one of my favorite conflicts in all of romance: the upright guy hangs around the errant girl for her own good, but cannot help but sample some of her goodies while her is “reforming” her.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

If you don&#039;t mind reading an adult book about a teenage romance, I have the perfect book for you.  &lt;i&gt;One on One&lt;/i&gt; by Tabitha King.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>one of my favorite conflicts in all of romance: the upright guy hangs around the errant girl for her own good, but cannot help but sample some of her goodies while her is “reforming” her.</p></blockquote>
<p>If you don&#8217;t mind reading an adult book about a teenage romance, I have the perfect book for you.  <i>One on One</i> by Tabitha King.</p>
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		<title>By: willaful</title>
		<link>http://www.readreactreview.com/2009/04/06/review-shes-got-it-bad-by-sarah-mayberry/#comment-2106</link>
		<dc:creator>willaful</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2009 04:46:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;I felt the view that a woman’s infertility made her an empty shell was being endorsed in the text.&lt;/i&gt;

I haven&#039;t read the book, but I think I get what you&#039;re saying. And agree that it&#039;s disturbing. 

The thing about men (plural) rejecting for it seems very odd and improbable to me, as well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>I felt the view that a woman’s infertility made her an empty shell was being endorsed in the text.</i></p>
<p>I haven&#8217;t read the book, but I think I get what you&#8217;re saying. And agree that it&#8217;s disturbing. </p>
<p>The thing about men (plural) rejecting for it seems very odd and improbable to me, as well.</p>
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		<title>By: Jessica</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jessica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2009 02:00:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;willaful&lt;/b&gt; wrote:
&lt;blockquote&gt;That’s an interesting issue. As someone who’s suffered from infertility, I can attest that those feelings are not at all atypical. And I don’t know if I would find it plausible for someone to just get over it quickly. On the other hand, that certainly does sound like a horrible message.
(Oh, and how sick I get of the miracle babies… though perhaps I really shouldn’t, since I had one myself.)
&lt;/blockquote&gt;

What bothered me the most was that her infertility and subsequent rejection by male partners was what drove her into the &quot;bad girl&quot; lifestyle, which was coded immoral in the text, and yet, she never deals with her infertility. That conflict just  drops out of the book.

It&#039;s also very hard for me to pin this down, not being a specialist in literary analysis, but I felt the view that a woman&#039;s infertility made her an empty shell was being endorsed in the text. It was more than just one character&#039;s feelings. As a romance reader, I am used to characters having an unmerited sense of low self esteem.  It was the idea that the feelings were reflective of her true worth that wasn&#039;t challenged enough.

&lt;b&gt;Tumperkin&lt;/b&gt; wrote:
&lt;blockquote&gt;I think that’s a valid thing for a character to feel. Was the problem here that no other character was putting the opposite view forward? Oh dear - I’m asking for spoilers, aren’t I? Ignore me. I happen to find infertility tropes fascinating.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

I am not sure if my reply to Willaful helped explain it. You should read it!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>willaful</b> wrote:</p>
<blockquote><p>That’s an interesting issue. As someone who’s suffered from infertility, I can attest that those feelings are not at all atypical. And I don’t know if I would find it plausible for someone to just get over it quickly. On the other hand, that certainly does sound like a horrible message.<br />
(Oh, and how sick I get of the miracle babies… though perhaps I really shouldn’t, since I had one myself.)
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<p>What bothered me the most was that her infertility and subsequent rejection by male partners was what drove her into the &#8220;bad girl&#8221; lifestyle, which was coded immoral in the text, and yet, she never deals with her infertility. That conflict just  drops out of the book.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s also very hard for me to pin this down, not being a specialist in literary analysis, but I felt the view that a woman&#8217;s infertility made her an empty shell was being endorsed in the text. It was more than just one character&#8217;s feelings. As a romance reader, I am used to characters having an unmerited sense of low self esteem.  It was the idea that the feelings were reflective of her true worth that wasn&#8217;t challenged enough.</p>
<p><b>Tumperkin</b> wrote:</p>
<blockquote><p>I think that’s a valid thing for a character to feel. Was the problem here that no other character was putting the opposite view forward? Oh dear &#8211; I’m asking for spoilers, aren’t I? Ignore me. I happen to find infertility tropes fascinating.</p></blockquote>
<p>I am not sure if my reply to Willaful helped explain it. You should read it!!</p>
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		<title>By: Tumperkin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tumperkin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 21:14:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have an infertile friend who does feel just like this.  She doesn&#039;t happen to deal with those feelings by singing in a thrash band but she does put on a &#039;fine with me&#039; attitude and says she loves her lifestyle etc. whilst confessing to close friends her real feelings.  

I think that&#039;s a valid thing for a character to feel.  Was the problem here that no other character was putting the opposite view forward?  Oh dear - I&#039;m asking for spoilers, aren&#039;t I?  Ignore me.  I happen to find infertility tropes fascinating.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have an infertile friend who does feel just like this.  She doesn&#8217;t happen to deal with those feelings by singing in a thrash band but she does put on a &#8216;fine with me&#8217; attitude and says she loves her lifestyle etc. whilst confessing to close friends her real feelings.  </p>
<p>I think that&#8217;s a valid thing for a character to feel.  Was the problem here that no other character was putting the opposite view forward?  Oh dear &#8211; I&#8217;m asking for spoilers, aren&#8217;t I?  Ignore me.  I happen to find infertility tropes fascinating.</p>
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		<title>By: willaful</title>
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		<dc:creator>willaful</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 17:57:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s an interesting issue. As someone who&#039;s suffered from infertility, I can attest that those feelings are not at all atypical. And I don&#039;t know if I would find it plausible for someone to just get over it quickly. On the other hand, that certainly does sound like a horrible message.

(Oh, and how sick I get of the miracle babies... though perhaps I really shouldn&#039;t, since I had one myself.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s an interesting issue. As someone who&#8217;s suffered from infertility, I can attest that those feelings are not at all atypical. And I don&#8217;t know if I would find it plausible for someone to just get over it quickly. On the other hand, that certainly does sound like a horrible message.</p>
<p>(Oh, and how sick I get of the miracle babies&#8230; though perhaps I really shouldn&#8217;t, since I had one myself.)</p>
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